101 WAYS TO DITCH YOUR FRIENDS: NUMBER 49
I don’t give a fuck if I’m rude to you. If you joke about something that is a serious issue I will not take that shit. I don’t care how uncomfortable it makes you, I will not allow jokes like that around me. I take issues like suicide, self harm, discrimination, rape, depression, and bullying very seriously.
"Don’t be defined by your condition" often seems to mean "pretend your condition doesn’t shape your life or else".